…Words of wisdom
Sometimes last year November, I listened to Bishop Desmond Tutu’s speech after he was given an award. He mentioned that ‘words like… 'He’s such a nice guy', 'he's so modest ...' Don’t describe him'
This statement struck a cord in me as I realized that I find it really convenient and safe to be described just like that; “The nice, modest, easy-going lady / individual”
But have we ever pondered on why someone would be described in such manner?I believe it is probably because such person has found a convenient spot to 'sit on the fence of life’s situations' and does not 'boldly stand' for what he/she believes to be right!
Hence, flexible enough to adapt very nicely to every situation.
Believe me, it’s a very cozy decision.
Such people usually;
-keep mute at issues contradicting their beliefs rather than voice out. -Copes, adapt and blend with situations until their identity is misplaced. -Men pleasers who want to be at peace with all men (regardless of the cost)!
So, now you might really want to ask yourself if you are nice J
Enjoy the rest of your week!
3 comments:
Yeah...you have to stand for something or you'll fall for anything. And when people know this early it determines what they can ask of you.
Tokunbo
Hmm...very thought provoking and easy to identify with. Standing out ia a choice which comes with a price. "Blending in" is synonymous to not having a voice.
Nice piece, bisols. Keep writing!
Love the article, it is absolutely true
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