To some, the phrase ‘Everything is working’ might appear to make a complete sense, while for others, there seems to be something incomplete about the statement, to them, the statement brings about questions such as; how? Where? For who?
Well for me I take the statement to be an abbreviation of a scripture that readily comes to mind
‘…for we know that all things work together for good to them that love God and are called according to his purpose’
This was a statement/confession I picked up from my husband (then my fiancé) during our courtship days. Somehow, things did not just look like we pictured it, in fact it was far from what we saw before getting into the relationship, yet he kept his confession – ‘Every thing is working!’
Initially, I felt he was just being unrealistic and over spiritual as it was obvious that things were not working (At least none that I could see!) he said it so much that not only did I begin to chorus it, I also believed it.
Little did I know he was shaping his world with his words, for what you say, you see! Now looking back at those days that seemed like forever, I can boldly say that everything we went through was actually working together for our good!
It’s interesting how calculative we get when getting into relationships especially with the opposite sex. For people like me who are not mathematically inclined, its funny how easily calculations are done on length, breadth and width (talking about height and body structure), round, oval, rectangular, oblong etc (talking about facial structures), position in the family (whether he’s is first or last born) and all manners of calculations. We openly declare that God’s will be done while in our heart of hearts we have standards that he-God -must meet or else…!
It is very important for you to know that whatever becomes real in our minds, is what God makes real in our lives. Having a happy home, or a successful relationship is not a luxury, it is a necessity for the linage of grace to continue, so all you need do first and foremost is deal with the fear of failure you have and tell yourself Everything is working!
The fact that you have been in and out of relationships does not make you a failure in your relationship, not everyone gets it right the first time. You just keep trying, while changing your approach each time and you can be rest assured that ‘Everything is working!’
Opportunity plus preparation they say equals success, why don’t you stop waiting for the right person and try being that right person and you’ll be amazed how everything would work!
Howbeit, Since the principle of sowing and reaping is not negotiable, it’s important to mind what you sow, by this, I mean the roles do you play in other people’s relationships, are you a source of encouragement or otherwise. Remember, what you make happen for others God will make happen for you!
One last thing, no matter what comes your way this season, always remember to tell yourself - EVERYTHING IS WORKING!
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