Guys, have you ever wondered why a woman would expect a man to fulfill all her varying limitless needs? Why she desires to be protected, loved, cherished; yet she desires complete freedom and autonomy? She will often push and test the limits to ensure they are there, she receives a sense of security just to know her man is strong to resist but wise enough to know when to give in. Why she wants to be appreciated and have her self-identity reinforced through repeated signs of affection and approval?
Really, she wants to be the helper, not the boss… but at times she seem dominating, she desires to have control over her own territory, at the same time needing a man’s concern and strength, she desires affection expressed in a thousand ways, she desires sensitivity to her mood swings and strangely expects her man to be capable of decoding these varying emotional state …oops!
Why little expression of love and affection means much more to her that a man can ever imagine. Why she’s touched when she’s remembered and complimented. SHE LOVES TO BE LISTENED TO!
Why she frequently wants to dominate, yet desires to know her man is in charge…
A young bachelor friend once lamented to me ‘why is it that when women talk (complain) and you keep quiet they say you are not being sensitive, when you respond they say you were not even listening carefully?’
Are you single or married? Male or female? Can you identify with the above personality?
Are women really complicated? Are they necessary evil (like a colleague said)?
Let me know what you think…
5 comments:
I believe women are even more complicated than you put it. I think the complexity of women should be added to the 7 wonders of the world!(lol)
I feel that despite the seeming complexities of a woman, over time, her own man will see through it to simplicity.
I can't agree more with anonymous. Women are one complicated case. It's hard to live with them and it's harder to live without them.
Anonymous 1 and 2,
I wonder why you guys choose to comment as anonymous. Hope you are not scared of more complexity (lol).
Toks, thanks . . how long in your own opinion does it take for a man to understand his woman ;}?
I'm a lady and i cannot even say i understand myself that much :| how much more another person. But i dont think theres anything impossible. It might only take time...somehow i know my would-be spouse will understand me or at least we'll learn to live with each other
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